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善用魔法關鍵詞,絕對讓你提升溝通力﹗

  • Lillian
  • 2022-05-24 12:23:30

善用魔法關鍵詞,絕對讓你提升溝通力﹗

第一個Magic word兩個都係,如果英文嚟講,都係三個英文字母,你估下?就係無錯就係「sex」﹗每次你講關於「性」嘅話題自然啲人就會好大反應。當然,正常我哋好難conversation,次次都提呢啲性嘅話題㗎?男人之間傾計成日都咁開心就係咁解。

第二個有用好多喇,你估下都係三個英文字母,係咩字呢?點解咁講呢?「你」啫﹗好正常每個人都會講啦,點解係magic word?有冇諗過你有冇刻意咁樣去用「你」呢個字眼呢?例如呢個情況,我有個女仔我想約嘅,我想約佢食飯。咁我同佢講,街尾開咗間餐廳,啱啱攞到米芝蓮嘅,好好食㗎,食泰國菜嘅,環境好好㗎,入面裝修好靚,坐得好舒服㗎,我想約你去,下個星期得唔得呀?掉返轉如果我哋多啲用「你」去講會點呢?將「你」作為一個主體,係呢個request入面,個結構係街尾呢,開咗間餐廳,你一定鍾意,係你最鍾意食嗰啲泰國菜,你好鍾意嗰度環境一定,下星期我同你去?成件事當堂唔同咗?

第一如果我講件事幾正幾正都好,你覺得啫,我覺得正唔正呀?我係咪真係鍾意呀?你講嘅優點缺點,我要睇下啦,如果你咬定你會鍾意,我會鍾意,其實喺嗰一刻潛意識入面呢已經消除咗好多心入面嘅問號,成件事positive咗好多,嗰套戲場面呢幾大呀特技幾好呀。感情做得幾細緻呀,畫面有幾靚,男女主角演繹得有幾好,都唔及一句,嗰套戲真係好好睇㗎,係你鍾意睇嗰類型㗎﹗上次你話嗰套戲好睇嘅呢?套呢就好似你上次講過套咁,如果你係想將一句說話,去說服其他人呀,要求人哋回應、令到對方畀好多關注落去你度。呢件事上面不妨扭扭你講嘢嘅方向張個角度呢,從你出發,你會點,你會點,呢一件事係為你而設,你會鍾意呢件事係你個type,自然啦。即是消除咗好多問題,咁樣啦,西裝好靚呀你件西裝好靚咁都係都係靚啦。我哋可以將個「你」字變得更加喺嗰個主題嗰度就係你著得件西裝好靚喎,你著得條裙好靚喎,或你帶呢條頸鏈真係同你好襯,你今日個妝真係顯得你好靚喎,紅明艷照人喎,而唔係你今日好靚囉,你今日個妝好靚囉,將個「你」字加入主題角度,對方自然會投入嗰件事嗰度,就可以成事。呢個呢係一個比較負面嘅詞語呀,我哋會同人講其實你做得好好㗎啦不過公司覺得你呢好有貢獻㗎啦已經做得不過我好滿意你嘅表現㗎啦不過,不過,呢個字呢永遠都係囉聽到呢就係知道開前面講得幾漂亮都好啦,不過之後呢就係負面嘅嘢啦不過永遠代表著負面的東西,會唔會試下呢將「不過」呢樣嘢呢扭轉佢。例如點講呀,例如我唔知呢樣嘢呢間唔啱你嘅不過我覺得樣嘢啱你囉,我覺得你未必鍾意,不過你其實會鍾意呢間餐廳,亦都多咗一份就令人去感覺你有為我諗過喎,你有思考過先同我講喎咁嘅一個前設喺呢度。記住我今日分享嘅,最緊要嘅技巧仔記住將「你」放喺一啲句子嘅本體嗰度,將「不過」用係一啲相反環境嗰度咁樣講嘢就事半功倍啦ok。

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